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Well, i have to go on a date with a girl i like, but my mom wont let me go! She is overprotective.
She says she is afraid of me being in trouble with gangs and some others things.What do i do? :depressed:
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Thats a new one. Not sure how a girl = gangs but alright...
I'd try telling her that dating is a part of growing up and that you could use this as a test as well, if you don't get in trouble on the date (and really, how can you?) your moms trust will probably go up a bit and she'll let you go more often.
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Not to be intrusive, but how old are you?
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Mar 22 2011, 05:56 PM
Not to be intrusive, but how old are you?
i am 14 years old.
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Mar 22 2011, 05:44 PM
Thats a new one. Not sure how a girl = gangs but alright...
I'd try telling her that dating is a part of growing up and that you could use this as a test as well, if you don't get in trouble on the date (and really, how can you?) your moms trust will probably go up a bit and she'll let you go more often.
i dont know if that would work.
this happens everytime i leave home:

My mom:Son, what happened? You dont got involved into anything dangerous?
Me: No mom, dont worry.
My mom: Humph. *yelling* I THINK YOU ARE LYING TO ME KID!!
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Hmmm. You should try to start light with this relationship. Try to explain to your mom that you're getting older and you need to exercise your social skills with girls. Better to explore your feelings now than repress them.

For light dating idea refer to this situation that I fixed: http://s6.zetaboards.com/The_Rockman_EXE_Zone/single/?p=8081615&t=8623682
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i taked a look your topic. i taked her to the park today and she said: lets go watch a movie next week!It would be nice right?

I said: Yeah, it will be fun!

But i forgot to say her about my overprotective mom, so maybe she would like to go somwhere next to my house.The date is tomorrow, and i still couldnt convince my mom.
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[offtop]Just wondering... But why do you have dates on Wednesday? o3o[/offtop]
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Mar 22 2011, 06:19 PM
[offtop]Just wondering... But why do you have dates on Wednesday? o3o[/offtop]
It was her idea. I asked why not in saturday, and she said:
''im going somewhere else saturday...dont worry, its not a date with someone else!''

This bringed a chill down to my spine...
Edited by Herobrine, Mar 22 2011, 06:31 PM.
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Your mother seems to be very conservative...

http://www.preteenagerstoday.com/articles/independence/dating-101-2784/

for Your mother.
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Mar 22 2011, 06:38 PM
Your mother seems to be very conservative...

http://www.preteenagerstoday.com/articles/independence/dating-101-2784/

for Your mother.
No use, right now she just said:

Internet texts wont teach any **** thing to me! You will not go!
:cry:
Gah... what do i do now?? Help me god.
Edited by Herobrine, Mar 22 2011, 06:41 PM.
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Tell her that you're growing up and that parents have to leave their kids sooner or later, and you're one of those kids. She can't just keep protecting you over and over, you can do it yourself. Also, prove it to her that you're going to be safe and won't do anything bad.
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Mar 22 2011, 06:42 PM
Prove it to her that you're going to be safe and won't do anything bad.
i taked that girl i like to the park 4 times, and when i arrive home, my mom always say:

Humph.You are lying to me kid, i can see the lie in your facial expression.

She still thinks i got involved in bad things no matter what i say.
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I edited my post, by the way.
That's not proving it. When I mean prove it, I mean that you have to REALLY prove it.
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Mar 22 2011, 06:47 PM
I edited my post, by the way.
That's not proving it. When I mean prove it, I mean that you have to REALLY prove it.
you still dont get the point.

in my last date, she sneeked in the park!
She saw me and my girlfriend, we werent doing anything bad, but she still says the same thing.
When i mean overprotective, i mean OVERPROTECTIVE
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This may sound like the worst idea ever but it worked for my first date... take your mom with you and have her sit on opposite end of the theatre. she is probably the type of mother that like to be there on your Prom day or First date.
Edit: She doesnt want you to grow up its normal for mothers ^.^
Edited by CorruptedValor, Mar 22 2011, 07:04 PM.
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I get the point. T_T

PROVE it to her that you can be alone.
Also, tell her what I said two posts before this.
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Personally this was mine. I'm not your little boy anymore mom. I'm growing older and more independent whether you like it or not. Soon, when i go to university, you'll have to be able to trust me when I'm there That I'll make good choices and you and dad aren't nearby in order to prevent that. If you can't do that now, then how will you be able to do it then?
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Your mother seems to be protective to the point where it fostering suspicion between you. It looks like paranoia at the level of which you describe it. Have the both of you get to a counselor to talk it out.
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Mar 22 2011, 07:45 PM
Your mother seems to be protective to the point where it fostering suspicion between you. It looks like paranoia at the level of which you describe it. Have the both of you get to a counselor to talk it out.
Well for your mother to say stuff like that you must of had a history of getting into trouble( not saying your a bad kid ). If that is not the case then you and your mother need a long talk.
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