| Please help me with getting my crush back...; at least as friends! | |
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| Topic Started: Nov 12 2008, 07:08 PM (130 Views) | |
| Bassdark25 | Nov 12 2008, 07:08 PM Post #1 |
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Yes, I really need the help on getting Karen back as friends. What happened was that I met her in 9th grade. Once we started to know each other, we became friends. For some reason I thought I'd never want to go out with her but I was wrong. Because of how nice she was, I wanted to got out with her. Lol-I'm dead sure she also wanted to go out with me. On Valentines day on that same year, I got her a rose and letter as a way of saying "Happy Valentines Day" and amek her feel special because by the way she was telling me the day before that day, she wish someone would be her Valentine. She felt happy and well that's were people started with "are you Karen's boyfriend?" This made me lie and she started to blush. Of course we ignored them but later on she...well keep reading. She couldn't take it anymore. About the end of the year, I asked here out, but telling her to ignore what others say-maybe we can keep this a secret. Well... she was nervous and quickly said "No" and left. I knew it was the bugging students fault...I just know she wanted to say yes. Now 10th grade, later around December. She was still hanging around with me, as friends, and I was okay with we being friends because we made each other laugh and such-like best friends. Well around the last week of school, she seemed to be talking with me in a strange way, ore like romantic. I was on the wall and she had her arms in a position to hug me, but not hugging me. Also she looked like she wanted to put her arms on top of my shoulders. I was like "okay..." and I even felt like really going out with her. Well I got nervous because what if she said no...well one of my "friends" give that pervert look and said "ooh, ma son got a girl, whoo-hoo." I was like "nah...just friends." She got nervous and just standed next to me. Well that killed my chance! But not completely. Here is where it cause her to stop hanging around with me. I do this plan to have us finally left alone but...*sigh* keep reading. I decided to say negative thing about her. (So people would stop bugging us about we liking each other.) So I stupidly say those things like "I don't hang around with here any more. I barley have class with her. She's weird and ugly." I regret saying that at least 10 times...because all of the sudden she: -Stop hanging around with me. -Ignored me and laughed with her friends about other stuff, possible some things about me. I felt crushed because instead of making things better for both of us, I broke our relationship as friends. Now in the 11th grade...she only see me when she's walking in the hallways alone an tries to ignore me...now I have no motivation for School. Yes, apparently she was my only motivation when I realized in the 9th grade how this school sucks a lot. Please, I really need help. What should I do? Really I need her back as friends! |
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| Kenji | Nov 13 2008, 10:54 PM Post #2 |
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*Sigh* This is one of the main reasons why I think love in high school is useless since there are way too many people that influence it. After a breakup or reject you literally feel like S***. If you really need her that badly then just try and confront her one day and just say that you know there is nothing you can do to change the events that have already happened but I feel that I still need to apologize for what I have done and I was hoping we could still be friends after what happened. Just my philosophical sense with this. IF you can, try and get some info about how she feels about you from other people. Maybe friends or so. Remember, talk with your own feelings and not in someone else words. If you feel you really need to, explain why you acted that way so she understands what you were feeling. One more thing, just because someone else thinks someway about you or the group you are in right now doesn't mean it is true. When you are being insulted or made fun of, turn what they say against them. It works plenty of times for me when I encounter Racism. Good Luck Reversing what you have done. |
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"Compare birth with death, compare death with life; compare what is possible with what is not possible and compare what is not possible with what is possible; because there is, there is not, and because there is not, there is." "Left is right, right is wrong" "世上无难事,只怕有心人." | |
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| Bassdark25 | Nov 14 2008, 05:48 PM Post #3 |
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But there's a small problem...my friends will think I really care about her! I don't want to make it obvious and say "What's wrong with Karen?" I wish I can confront her but today I'm standing at a desk so the student can leave (since period 1 was over) and I see her. I was going to say hi but she says hi to that student who was in my spot, and leaves dam quickly! What do I do now? |
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| Kenji | Nov 14 2008, 10:01 PM Post #4 |
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What's wrong with other people knowing you have feelings for her? Just suck it up. |
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"Compare birth with death, compare death with life; compare what is possible with what is not possible and compare what is not possible with what is possible; because there is, there is not, and because there is not, there is." "Left is right, right is wrong" "世上无难事,只怕有心人." | |
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| Base | Nov 14 2008, 10:11 PM Post #5 |
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If you don't want friends to know then talk to her when they aren't around, if you never get a time like that, then there isn't really any way for us to tell you what to do without being there. |
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| Megacherv | Nov 17 2008, 02:31 PM Post #6 |
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Well, whatever you do,try and avoid saying that you love her. I know too well from experience that girls don't react with the word 'love'. Talk to her, and if anybody teases you about it, say either:- "oooh, jealous" (in a real handbag-accent) "Get screwed" |
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| SiLvErZ | Nov 24 2008, 06:06 AM Post #7 |
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Good advice,but correction, *HIGH SCHOOL* girls don't react to the word love nicely. And yeah,suck it up.WHO THE **** cares if people know you like her. Thats a waaaaaaaaaay lot better than being me right now. |
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