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help with a crush that I got
Topic Started: Nov 3 2008, 06:44 PM (155 Views)
Blazeman.EXE
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Just felt like talking about it. anyways, I like this girl at school that I've known for about a year now. and I don't have any classes with her anymore so I have to go out of my way to talk to her. But I don't really want to just walk up and talk to her cause I don't want anyone to know that I have a crush on her ( I don't care about on here cause nobody knows me personally on here ( and if you somehow then you better not tell anyone, got it). I think that she is gonna start talking to me more pretty soon, cause I've been making sure that I show her that I'm noticing her and I have noticed her looking at me a lot. any advice would be very nice. and last year we got to a pretty good spot with talking to each other like we would have been able to express our feelings to one another, but then one kid had mocked me when I was spending time with her and I closed up my feelings so that they wouldn't find out my secret( the one about me liking her). Of cource I felt extremely dumb when I realized that when we were disagreeing on one thing in english( it was if school would be better or worse if it were on computers) that she was meaning that we could talk without people annoying us or anything. While I was meaning that I might never have met her or I wouldn't get to hear her voice as much, which I wouldn't like near as much.
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Bassdark25
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Late response but please listen to me!
I...to had this EXACT thing going on with me, I mean everything! Everything you just said happened to me in my 9th and 10th grade.
I suggest you keep trying. Do not, I repeat-DO NOT do what I did in 10th grade. What I did so people would stop bugging us about we liking each other, I stupidly said "I don't hang around with here any more. I barley have class with her. She's weird and ugly." I regret saying that at least 10 times...because all of the sudden she:
-Stop hanging around with me.
-Ignored me and laughed with her friends about other stuff, possible some things about me.
I felt crushed because instead of making things better for both of us, I broke our relationship as friends. Now in the 11th grade...she only see me when she's walking in the hallways alone an tries to ignore me...now I have no motivation for School. Yes, apparently she was my only motivation when I realized in the 9th grade how this school sucks a lot.
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A Crush Eh? i would just walk up to her and talk to her, or just make friends with one of her friends then get to her


[this is bad advice isnt it?]
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@Megaboy08: Oh yeah, worse piece of advice ever. Especially for many people.

Back on topic.
First I need some questions answered so that I can give my reply.

What Grade are You in?

Are You two in the same year?

How well do you think you know her?

Do you have her contact Info?

What type of person are you and what type of person is she?

How dedicated to relationships are you?

What race are you?(I know it seems completely irrelevant but it is important info for these types of problems.)

What race is she?(Read previous parenthesis)



Edited by Kenji, Nov 13 2008, 11:14 PM.
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"Better to remain silent and be thought of as a fool than to speak, and remove all doubt." ~Abraham Lincoln
You know what's more hopeless?

I got a crush on a girl that goes to our rival school, but we're both on the same swim team.

Normal, right?

Wrong.

I'm a freshman. She's a junior.

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